The sterilization of spirit and eros in our culture has likely arisen because these qualities are difficult and even dangerous to engage if we don’t develop the skills and conditions to meet them consciously. If we can’t hold ourselves in our deepest longings we may be drawn to dominate and control others in the attempt to avoid personal discomfort. I have repeatedly found myself spiritually depleted and unmet by others when I do not prioritize coming home to myself, meeting my desires from the inside. I am a dancer because dancing has taught me to make love with the divine accessed within myself. In BraveSpace® I offer that we do this not in isolation, but in communion, so that we can better attune to and engage each other with greater integrity and joy. From here we may dare to meet one another in the creative unknown. This, for me, is making love with life.